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Nice. Living in Brussels a lot of people seem to have decided that English will be enough for them - it us indeed a transitory place. Personally, I've gamefied my environment to get as much French and Dutch-speaking in as possible. Bilingualism, if you want it

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I learned a lot of languages when I was young and I agree that unless there is an urgent need, it’s hard to make headway in a new language.

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I'm lucky: English isn't my mother tongue.

I can use Duolingo in English and still make mistakes... In English.

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That's how I felt when my daughter was using Duolingo to 'learn' Hebrew which is her mother tongue: at least she was practicing reading in English :)

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So true! Unfortunately it works in both directions. I have subsequently forgotten most of the Polish I spoke when we lived and worked there

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Yep! It totally does. We lose it if we don't use it / don't need it anymore.

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This is such a great article and explains so much about language learning. I definitely relate to the "need" theory. When I lived in Sweden and realized I couldn't get by without the language, I quickly learned to speak it. Of course, the other factor is immersion, which you covered in this article. Now I understand why my French hasn't improved over the years. Some food for thought, hmmm!

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It's really hard to create an artificial immersion environment. What works for me (not with French, because I kind of abandoned it a long time ago) is watching movies in the target language with English subtitles (or without if I'm feeling brave:))

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Yes! I actually learned conversational American English that way, when I was a college student. Subtitles weren't available on the big screen, so I was forced to learn. I tried that with French TV for a period of time, but without subtitles I was lost, so I reverted back to subtitles and my learning was limited.

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I definitely agree that an ‘immersion bubble’ is necessary to truly learn and retain a new language. I made the most progress learning Spanish when I spent 3 weeks in Mexico with my husbands family. (Just me and my 2 kids - he couldn’t go at the time.) I went not knowing ANY Spanish. And they didn’t know any English, either. I learned basic vocabulary and simple sentences quick! And could understand a lot. Since then, I haven’t been able to progress and have lost a lot of what I learned because I’m not really around anyone who speaks it anymore. (My husband works all the time and I only see him a couple hours a day. We should speak only Spanish, but I have no patience when so much needs to be discussed in such short time frames.) My brain definitely does not feel it ‘needs’ to learn it, I suppose. It definitely hasn’t prioritized it. 🫤

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Exactly! When you have no choice you learn quickly. Also I'm a little bit jealous of your immersion experience. I need to marry someone urgently whose parents don't speak any of the languages I already know :)

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Haha! It’s probably one of the most intense immersion experiences!!

Although, I also spent a month in the wilderness when I was 15 as part of a French voyageur experience and that was pretty intense, too! We were encouraged to speak, sing, and write only in French the entire time. To this day I usually recall French vocabulary and phrases first (when actually trying to learn Spanish). Sometimes I wonder if it would come back if I moved to France. 🥰

And if I could arrange it - a month long immersion in Italy to learn Italian would be next on my list!

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Maybe this is why I've been finding it so hard to learn Welsh, despite having lived in Wales - sorry, Cymru - for 5 years! Dwi'n trio ddysgu siarad Cymraeg - I really am!!

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You nailed it on the head!! Such a big factor when it comes to motivation, and a crucial factor that I've observed in my own life (being in language communities where I *had* to use my TL).

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I'm in need of some more need now. Great essay. Thank you.

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Thank you for commenting, Adam!

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This makes a lot of sense. I can understand Thai more than I can speak because I'm immersed in it by living in Thailand but it's not a need for me to speak it. I quickly learned to read and write when I was with my ex who couldn't write English, so all our text communication had to be in Thai. My reading, writing, and listening are so much stronger than my speaking.

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That's so funny, considering that reading and writing Thai is so much harder (for most people I think) than learning to speak it. And just proves that we'll learn anything if we need it.

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Right?! Let's just learn 72 whole new characters that don't resemble anything of the English language... I hadn't actually thought about it so deeply until reading your post, so thank you for bringing the topic to light.

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Inspiring, true and even funny!

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Wow, Tanya, you’ve forced me to reconsider the moments where I’ve felt a language explosion and you’re absolutely right! It was when I felt the urgency to figure out a new language. It feels like your brain can just take in huge swaths of language and somehow your brain is able to start structuring it. As I was reading, it reminded me of that scene in The Matrix where they download all the information into someone’s brain. Sort of like that but way less intense 😂

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Yes! If we feel the urgency we can learn anything. Or at least we can learn much more than if we don't feel the need to do it.

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I've always wondered what it was that allowed me to self learn Mandarin for now 6 years straight. In the last year or so I've mostly been maintaining but at the start I was learning it as my only language without a need for it. I never took language classes and I barely spoke with anyone. I just learned for the sake of learning. Maybe my need was to grow my knowledge in general? Or the need to learn something for myself since during those years I was also in university feeling the stresses of academia. That's probably it.

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I think you can do it without having the need for it but it takes longer and is harder. You probably created little "need" / "immersion" bubbles for Mandarin without realizing it. Good language resources usually do it for you. But I also relate to the need to invest myself into something to escape the stresses of something else in life.

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I actually thought you were going to write about the “need” factor as an urge, a craving. That is what I say when I feel I “need” to go to the forest and walk 10 kilometres and paint, otherwise my brain will explode! :) But I guess it is a different kind of “need”😉

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Well, could be both I guess :)

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